The Pros and Cons of dating your boss

The Pros and Cons of dating your boss

I don’t think I’m the only one who has ever had that fantasy of having a hot boss you were secretly dating. Discreetly meeting up for sexy dinners while being completely incognito while at work. He looks over at you just a little longer than he does anyone else in the office because he’s think about how he’s going to f*ck you later that night. You catch him staring over at you when no one else is looking. He listens to your work ideas a little more attentively because he…

A dating tale of the broke athlete…

A dating tale of the broke athlete…

I was minding my business one night putting my eyeliner on crooked as usual, when “HE” texted me. He was a professional athlete that was new to town and wanted to get out of his place and actually see the city. Not a “I play professional ball in China once every 3 years athlete” either. He’s a pro athlete, like you’ll catch him on tv on Sundays type of dude. I wouldn’t say a “star” athlete but on the roster. He seemed nice via text, cracked some jokes and I…

Decembers FitSnack Review

Decembers FitSnack Review

It’s that time again to update you guys on this months FITSNACK box! If you didn’t get to check my last month’s review out here it is Novembers Review ! Now lets get into this box!        This is actually my favorite canned coffee It was introduced to me by FitSnack several months ago and it is still one of my favorite coffee drinks! It doesn’t give you a “can taste” if you know what I mean. Tastes like fresh cold coffee! I love it!          …

We’ve been dating for a few weeks, do we exchange gifts for Christmas?

We’ve been dating for a few weeks, do we exchange gifts for Christmas?

So you’ve been dating this guy for a few weeks or months and now its holiday season. You aren’t in a relationship but you’ve been consistently dating.  Do you exchange gifts? This is always an interesting topic for me. I think there are a couple of factors to look into when making this decision.  #1 How long have you been dating? If you’ve been dating for two weeks I would say not to expect anything. You basically just met the man, so why would you be expecting a gift? You barely know…

My POF Review

My POF Review

I’ve been hearing about Plenty of Fish for a couple years and never really took it seriously. After my co workers friend told me she met her bf of one year on there (and they were still happy) I figured why not give it a try. Now like any dating app it has it’s up and downs so I want to give you guys my top observations on the app.  #1 I don’t like the layout Unlike Tinder and other dating apps you cant really see a large variety of options…

November’s FitSnack Review

November’s FitSnack Review

  It’s that time again to update you guys on this months FITSNACK box! If you didn’t get to check my last month’s review out here it is Octobers Review ! Now lets get into this box!       These multi vitamin gummies are great! Gave me a great boost of energy after a long work day! I would suggest taking them in the  morning to start your day off right!        Im not a beef jerky fan but these are gluten free and high in protein….

4 reasons a good MAN is the best fall accessory!

4 reasons a good MAN is the best fall accessory!

The leaves are falling guys! No denying it’s fall, especially when the weather is 30 degrees, plus the fact that I found a damn leaf in my wig. *rolls eyes extra hard* Fall means fashion we all know that. It’s easy to look amazing with a $10 maxi dress and some sandals. But the real fashionistas show the hell out come fall! Between the faux furs, the layers and the boots, it’s easy to spot the people that can really dress this time of year. Not everyone has an eye…

4 things to do now that Trump is president

4 things to do now that Trump is president

I woke up this morning in total shock. I knew America as a whole was foolish, I knew,  but seeing the polls this morning disturbed the deepest crevices of my soul. How can a country elect someone who allegedly raped a child, has repeatedly made racist comments and makes fun of the disabled. America has always been racist as a whole but these polls prove one more thing about America, they are sexist as well. The country would rather see this “MAN” in office than any woman. Now lets not…

A black woman, and a Pakistani doctor walk into a strip club…

A black woman, and a Pakistani doctor walk into a strip club…

It was our third date and we were headed to the strip club. The night didn’t start off this lit I swear. We had dinner at a very boring restaurant with the doctor in front of me making inappropriate sexual comments. I was becoming immune to his sense of freaky humor and it was only date three. I’ve never dated outside of my race before either. Didn’t know if I would be comfortable doing so honestly, but there I was on date three with my Pakistani doctor bae.    The restaurant was…

Octobers FitSnack Box

Octobers FitSnack Box

  It’s that time again to update you guys on this months FITSNACK box! If you didn’t get to check my last month’s review out here it is August’s Review ! Now lets get into this box!       Now pictured above are some repeats in the box this month that I have previously reviewed and you can check those out in previous box reviews!. Lets get into the new stuff..   I’m actually drinking this tea right now and it smells like chocolate but it doesn’t taste like…

Sephora Gift Card Contest

Sephora Gift Card Contest

I am so late with this contest so I’m going to extend the dates!  This contest is only open to people who subscribe to my blog or have already subscribed to it via email. Just insert your emil in the pop up that appears when my page loads.   The prize? A $75 Sephora gift card! Dates Open: 10/19/16 Date End: 11/8 (election day) I’m going to see if Sephora does electronic gifts cards if not the winner will be contacted via email and i’ll mail it to her/him.  Winner…

The three week romance…

The three week romance…

He was Haitian. I never date Haitian men anymore and I can say that because I’m Haitian! I dated two Haitian men in my lifetime and they both brought me hell and turned my life upside down. I vowed to never date another Haitian man again because of my experiences clearly but mostly because I’m really dramatic that way. So of course I meet this guy on a dating app, on one lonely night swiping away my single sorrows. We talked for a couple of days via that app thats when…

5 ways to successfully date while broke

5 ways to successfully date while broke

  This cheap date topic always pops up on Twitter every couple of weeks. Should broke people really be dating? We can argue about this all day but since “broke” people are going to go on dates anyway, I wanted to at least give some tips on doing it! Unfortunately I’ve been on dates with a couple of broke men so here is my advice….     1| Budget If you have $62 in your account don’t go to a place that’s going to make you come out of pocket anywhere…

New Dating App Alert: The League

New Dating App Alert: The League

So today I stumbled across a new dating app on instagram called TheLeague. No I haven’t signed up for it, but I wanted to give you guys some inside scoop I found out about this new  app. One of the things that caught my eye is that they call it “Intelligent Dating“. The method to picking a suitor is similar to Tinder with the whole swiping theory but they actually take it a step up and do a little bit of background investigation on their members. Here are a couple…

Do you give gifts back after a breakup?

Do you give gifts back after a breakup?

I watched my friend go back and forth on the phone with her ex (they were together for 6 months) about a flat screen tv he brought her during their relationship. She hadn’t heard from him for about a month after the breakup and he happened to be moving to a new nicer place, so he felt like she should give him the tv back. In his mind because of the cost of the tv she should rightfully give it back to him since they are no longer together. In her…