4 reasons a good MAN is the best fall accessory!

4 reasons a good MAN is the best fall accessory!

The leaves are falling guys! No denying it’s fall, especially when the weather is 30 degrees, plus the fact that I found a damn leaf in my wig. *rolls eyes extra hard* Fall means fashion we all know that. It’s easy to look amazing with a $10 maxi dress and some sandals. But the real fashionistas show the hell out come fall! Between the faux furs, the layers and the boots, it’s easy to spot the people that can really dress this time of year. Not everyone has an eye…

4 things to do now that Trump is president

4 things to do now that Trump is president

I woke up this morning in total shock. I knew America as a whole was foolish, I knew,  but seeing the polls this morning disturbed the deepest crevices of my soul. How can a country elect someone who allegedly raped a child, has repeatedly made racist comments and makes fun of the disabled. America has always been racist as a whole but these polls prove one more thing about America, they are sexist as well. The country would rather see this “MAN” in office than any woman. Now lets not…

A black woman, and a Pakistani doctor walk into a strip club…

A black woman, and a Pakistani doctor walk into a strip club…

It was our third date and we were headed to the strip club. The night didn’t start off this lit I swear. We had dinner at a very boring restaurant with the doctor in front of me making inappropriate sexual comments. I was becoming immune to his sense of freaky humor and it was only date three. I’ve never dated outside of my race before either. Didn’t know if I would be comfortable doing so honestly, but there I was on date three with my Pakistani doctor bae.    The restaurant was…

Octobers FitSnack Box

Octobers FitSnack Box

  It’s that time again to update you guys on this months FITSNACK box! If you didn’t get to check my last month’s review out here it is August’s Review ! Now lets get into this box!       Now pictured above are some repeats in the box this month that I have previously reviewed and you can check those out in previous box reviews!. Lets get into the new stuff..   I’m actually drinking this tea right now and it smells like chocolate but it doesn’t taste like…

Sephora Gift Card Contest

Sephora Gift Card Contest

I am so late with this contest so I’m going to extend the dates!  This contest is only open to people who subscribe to my blog or have already subscribed to it via email. Just insert your emil in the pop up that appears when my page loads.   The prize? A $75 Sephora gift card! Dates Open: 10/19/16 Date End: 11/8 (election day) I’m going to see if Sephora does electronic gifts cards if not the winner will be contacted via email and i’ll mail it to her/him.  Winner…

The three week romance…

The three week romance…

He was Haitian. I never date Haitian men anymore and I can say that because I’m Haitian! I dated two Haitian men in my lifetime and they both brought me hell and turned my life upside down. I vowed to never date another Haitian man again because of my experiences clearly but mostly because I’m really dramatic that way. So of course I meet this guy on a dating app, on one lonely night swiping away my single sorrows. We talked for a couple of days via that app thats when…

5 ways to successfully date while broke

5 ways to successfully date while broke

  This cheap date topic always pops up on Twitter every couple of weeks. Should broke people really be dating? We can argue about this all day but since “broke” people are going to go on dates anyway, I wanted to at least give some tips on doing it! Unfortunately I’ve been on dates with a couple of broke men so here is my advice….     1| Budget If you have $62 in your account don’t go to a place that’s going to make you come out of pocket anywhere…

New Dating App Alert: The League

New Dating App Alert: The League

So today I stumbled across a new dating app on instagram called TheLeague. No I haven’t signed up for it, but I wanted to give you guys some inside scoop I found out about this new  app. One of the things that caught my eye is that they call it “Intelligent Dating“. The method to picking a suitor is similar to Tinder with the whole swiping theory but they actually take it a step up and do a little bit of background investigation on their members. Here are a couple…

Do you give gifts back after a breakup?

Do you give gifts back after a breakup?

I watched my friend go back and forth on the phone with her ex (they were together for 6 months) about a flat screen tv he brought her during their relationship. She hadn’t heard from him for about a month after the breakup and he happened to be moving to a new nicer place, so he felt like she should give him the tv back. In his mind because of the cost of the tv she should rightfully give it back to him since they are no longer together. In her…

If your man makes more should the bills be 50/50??

If your man makes more should the bills be 50/50??

I tweeted this a couple of days ago and it started a social media uproar. “If your man makes 70k and you make 35k should the bills be 50/50?” The rent conversation always tends to be a hot one on social media but I didn’t expect to go viral expressing my thoughts on the subject. Needless to say I got everyones take on the subject, the good, the bad and the real ugly.  So for the past week my mentions have been flooded with so many opinions! I even got…

ColourPop Giveaway!

ColourPop Giveaway!

Hey hey hey!! I haven’t done a giveaway in so long so it’s definitely time! Now if you follow me on SnapChat (semiroyalty) you know my new obsession is with ColourPop. They have the  most amazing lipsticks and my current favorite is in the color Taurus it’s my go to lippie stick!  Now the giveaway is to win a Staycation lippie stick pack! Pictured below! It includes 6 lippie pencils all for the winner! Here are 4 easy ways to enter!  1| Subscribe to my blog via email! *mandatory* 2| RT/Repost…

Dating Chronicles: The Two drink bandit

Dating Chronicles: The Two drink bandit

I should have known his ass was cheap… I met him earlier this year, I happened to walk into a store he worked at and we briefly discussed our work and career goals. We happened to be in the same industry. I knew he wanted my number but decided to give him my website instead. He claimed he wanted to “collab” so I figured he could check out my site and see if he would be seriously interested in working together. It took a day for him to reach out to…

I took a girls trip and he stopped texting me

I took a girls trip and he stopped texting me

He told me he was insecure.. He warned me…. I was dating this guy he was super sweet, funny, generous, had a great job but I didn’t want to fuck him. I have been celibate for the past two years so dating again is a big deal for me. I want my man to have all those qualities I just listed but I also want to jump his bones on sight. I’m 26 years old, I want to settle down at some point (preferably soon) which means I eventually want…

5 things to know about dating NYC men

5 things to know about dating NYC men

  If you’re in the tristate or in the dating scene in general there are a couple of things that you need to know about SOME men in the NY dating scene. NY men are one of a kind and of course they have a million positives but these negatives are some things I need to mention. Lets get into this…   1| They never leave NY This past year of dating has been quite interesting for me. I’ve met a handful of NY men and one thing I’ve noticed…

August FitSnack Box

August FitSnack Box

  It’s that time again to update you guys on this months FITSNACK box! If you didn’t get to check my last month’s review out here is July’s Review ! Now lets get into this box!   Pistachio milk is one of the best creations out! This was my absolute favorite thing out of this months box! This was great in my fruit smoothies every morning! Definitely purchasing more.       Vanilla Marshmallows gave me fall/winter flashbacks. These were good a real quick snack!     Hotze Vitamins are…